Monday, November 23, 2009

Adults

What makes a person an adult?

23 comments:

  1. I person is an adult after they hit the age to were they are taking care of themselves. If you are 40 and still live with your mom I do not completely consider you a functional adult. Adults are responsible.

    When I think of an adult I think of a person living on there own, and working to support themselves. Being an adult is over the age of 18, which is the legal age.

    Adults are taking care of themselves, and making a salary for themselves and their families. A adult is mature and hard working. That is my definition of an adult! Oh, and Mrs. Miller is a great adult.

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  2. An age does not make a person an adult. it is how they act. if you would like to know how not to act liek an adult then read my comment on the other one about immature girls or boys.

    but people that are aduts need to be responsiable and trustworthy. i mean who would you turn to in a time of need when you cant trust anyone? no one, thats who. then whenever you cant express yourself then you will keep all of your emotions bundled up on the inside. then your life will become a huge mess and you will become depressed.

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  3. What makes a person an adult. This is clearly a very well thought out statement made to put our young able minds to work.

    I think being an adult has nothing to do with how old you are. Being an adult is all about how good you can rap. If you have no flow your not an adult.

    If you have sick rhymes and a mad flow then you are very much an adult. People who cant rap arent adults. the end.

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  4. What makes a person an adult? When they grow up. I don't mean grow up physically; I mean mentally. As we get older, we change. Physically, mentally, and socially. But someone cannot truly become an adult until they mature, and that's different for everybody. Some mature young, and some don't grow up until they're in their fifties and realize they spent their entire life goofing off.

    But that's when they mature, when they realize it's never too late for anything. That you can have just as good a life as someone who knew what they wanted when they were six. True, they may have to work harder for it, but they can still achieve what they want. A person becomes an adult when they realize not everything is as big a deal as we make it out to be. That the things we don't pay attention to, we should.

    People achieve adulthood when they see the world from a mature perspective. When they notice how shallow the way people think actually is. They become adults when they realize what's actually most important in life, like their family and friends, not petty finite things. We spend only so much time on this Earth, and quite a few spend it immaturely. They don't realize that you can't become an adult, until you actually start to act like one.

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  5. What makes a person an adult??? Well, in my opinion what makes a person an adult is your state of mind. If you still have the type of mindset where you don't let childish things phase you, you're an adult.

    Another thing that makes a person an adult is when you don't care about what other people say and stop talking about other people. People are going to talk about you for the rest of your life so it's time to get over it. Seriously.If you don't want anybody to talk about you, don't talk about them.

    The last thing that makes someone an adult is if you act like one. This mean be responsible and trustworthy. Those are some of the things I think makes a person an adult, does any of this define you???

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  6. To me when you can move out of your parents house and supply for yourself, you're an adult. Any less your still a child to me. And of course that means im still a child but i dont care. Im in the same grade as 15 and 16 year olds. I used to think when you got some chest hair you became a man but...i might not get any til college so i kind of changed that theory.

    Also for the people who stay with their parents but have a job and help pay bills, i guess you can be called one. Kind of stretching it but your helping the family out so thats the acception.

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  7. A person becomes an adult when they have matured through life, understood how to deal with problems, and got through school and college. They understand about the real world and they have the education required to go into a good career to be successful in life.

    Most people consider people to be adults after they are 21 so they can drink, drive, have a family, have a job, and many other things. I disagree with this because they could be immature and really dumb.

    An adult is a person that is mature and understands how to deal with life and be successful. Nobody can but a certain age on being an adult but they can try.

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  8. A person is an adult when they have alot of responsibility.They have a job and can pay there bills.Also they have to be 20 and older.The could have children and a hose and car that they can pay for.They can do almost everything they want.They have to actually act like one and act mature.When they can go into the world on there own and be sucessful with what they do.When you get older and have more wisdom.This is what makes a person an adult!But they have to actually act and do things as an adult.

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  9. To me age is nothing but a number. So i wouldn't say that age makes a person an adult. I would say it's the way they handle things such as, attitudes, arguments, and financial things.

    If a person is always fussing and arguing with people over little things, i would consider them not an adult.

    If someone if always catching attiitudes constanly with every and any thing, they are not an adult to me.

    If they are always stressed about something and can not handle it properly and get all out of control, they're not an adult to me.

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  10. Maturity makes a person an adult. Someone could be only 17, but if they act like they are 20 something, i would consider them to be an adult.

    Another thing that makes someone an adult is their responsibilities and independence. If a man is 25 years old and doesn't know how to do anything on his own, he is definitely not an adult.

    If someone lives with their parents, they are not an adult because if you can't live on your own.. what CAN you do? Lets try to be independent here!

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  11. I believe what makes a person a adult is how they act and what age they are. A adult is not a 13 year-old kid that just came into the 8th grade. It is a 18 or over 21 year old that is an adult.
    But some that are this age act like they are younger. In which they are immature. I do not see alot of adults like this.
    But there are some at there that just cause a mess for other people to clean up.These people are sometimes burdens for the real adults and just slow them down from getting ahead in life. But this is what I think a adult is.

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  12. A person is an adult when they are responsible for their own actions. Many people try to act as they are adults, when they are just irresponsible little kids. When kids do this they always end up getting in trouble or getting someone else in trouble.

    The legal age for someone to be an adult is 17. Still when a boy or girl is that age, they still do not act like an adult.

    Being an adult is important to many teenagers, because they want respect. Even though they think their grown up, their not. But being an adult is over-rated. When you become a adult, you have more responsibilities, and life is harder.

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  13. My mind makes me an adult. If in your mind you think your grown enough to do it than do it .You just got to know that when it is alol said and done you gone be the one to suffer any and all consequences.

    An adult may be a child because just bercause you are young doesn't mean your state of mind an the way you think is young. I can be 11 but if I have been through trials that have caused me to mature and become and adult and learn how to live on my own then I might as well be grown.

    Then you have adults that act like kids or have a child-like state of mind( Michael Jackson) our brain is so complexed that many things can be possible. So I believe many things can make you an adult!

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  14. honestly i have no idea what makes a person an adult! maybe if a person has a child and knows how to care of the child the right way maybe that would make them an adult. being independent and not reliable on something then that would also make them an adult.

    anther thing that would make someone an adult would be if they graduate from college and finally get a job. then maybe that would make them an adult. another thing that would make someone an adult would be if they have true responsibility they need to be able to take care of themselves and not let someone else take care of them!

    another thing that would make someone an adult would be weather they have honesty or not. maybe if the person is easy to trust and not a lair that maybe that would make them an adult.

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  15. There are many things that you have to do to be an adult. You have to be responsible, and you have to be a good role model. These are the main items that are good to have if you want to be classified as an adult. I hope people think these of me when i am an adult later on in my life.

    Responsibility is a very important key when your in adulthood. you have to know your limits when it comes to certain things. You have to do things the responsible adult would do. They have a great paying job so they can buy houses and nice cars and they have to be able to pay their bills and manage checkbooks and all of these important things.

    When i said you have to be a good role model I meant you can not do bad things. You don't want to do things that you would feel guilty about if you were caught. Like experiencing with drugs, and being at places that are not appropriate. Even though you are an adult, there are somethings that you shouldn't do even though they are very tempting.
    So this is what it takes to be an adult.

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  16. what makes a person an adult depends on who they are. how when we say that you become a adult when u turn 18, its not true. because we aren't mature yet.

    you have to be mature in order to be called an adult. some people may think you look like an adult but inside you really aren't. your still the kid you used to be when you started high school.

    to be called an adult you have to have a job, make money, and have a car, house, and the normal necessities of life. when your a kid you can't do all of that because you aren't smart enough, and you aren't able to do the things adults do. they live with the everyday life of working hard for their living unlike us kids who go to school and relax afterwards.

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  17. I don't think that something really "makes" you an adult, I believe that being an adult is a state of mind. Sure, you can be 100 years old, but that doesn't mean that you are 100 years old inside. Becoming an adult is a state of mind.

    I think that the line between a child and an adult is different for everyone. Some things force you to grow up, like a difficult childhood or a really big change. I could become an adult at 22 and someone else could become an adult at 50.

    I believe that if you believe that you're an adult and you take on the responsibilities of an adult, then I view you as an adult. Some things act as catalyst and speed up the race to adulthood, but age is a number and an adult is all in your head. Just because you're old, you are NOT an adult.

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  18. their really isn't a specific thing that classifies an adult.

    i say this because many adults act like their children and try and do things that their kids do. for example, they play video games, football, and much more.

    on the other hand, some adults can be classified by many things. some of the things that can classify an adult is their intelligence, and much more.

    my conclusion is that adults can have specific qualities that classify them as a real adult but some adults can act just like their children.

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  19. what makes a person a adult? well what makes a person an adult is when you have a job, out of college,pay bills, and over 18! you not not grown just because you pay your phone bill! No. you also aren't grown when you do things you have no business doing. Some people want to grow up a little to fast for me. like i mean when i see things like teens walking threw the mall with little clothes on and being loud walking with a lot of boys because they are being to grown for there age. When you have a good job and doing what you planned on doing when you got out of school and you start paying bills and you get your own home and realize that you have to spend your money wisely because you have bills to pay, that is when you are an adult! Even if you have kids...i don't care what age... that still does not make you an adult because just because you have kids doesn't mean you are going to grow up and take responsibility. so i think that's what make you an adult!:)

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  20. I would say when you take responsibility for your life.
    like getting up for work everyday and not staying out drinking all night before work because you know you have to work the next day.
    when your able to hold conversations with people older than you and not just talking about what you should be doing but what you are doing in life.
    having a child can turn immature people into adults real fast,unfortunately this doesn`t happen to everyone.

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  21. I think a person becomes an adult when there are mature both physically and mentally.Just because you are a certain age doesn't make you an adult.Like some adults are like children in adult's bodies because they don't have a mature mental status.

    Also I believe when you don't have a mature mental status you are prohibited from making important decisions that most adults make. So their responsibility level is some what low. I said that because I think a person's responsibility level plays a big role in weather they are truly an adult or not.

    So age is just a number and it doesn't tell weather a person is an adult or not. Age does not determine who you are and what your mental stability is like.

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  22. In this country if you are eighteen or older you are considered an adult. But, let me tell you I know a lot of people who are around that age and they do not act like an adult should.

    Adulthood in my opinion has nothing to do with age. It has to do with maturity. Age is just a number. That's all it is. Generally, we'd like to think that the older you are the more wiser/maturer you are but not always.

    You could have a 25 year old man who still acts like he's 12. And a 15 year old girl who is very responsible, and mature. So she would be more of an adult than he is. It just all depends.

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  23. Many people may call themselves adults but I promise you that haven’t reach the level for that yet. To be and adults you should have to following a wise mind and you should be doing for your own. An adult should be able to handle their own problems.
    Adults should have their own mines of doing thinks. They should be able to take responsibilities in your own hands. You should have your own place to live and car to get around and don’t have to hitch hiker of the streets. And adults should stay in and adults place and don’t worry about young teenagers business.
    Adults should respect others if they want people to respect them. You know a good adult when you see one all flows will not be shown. A good adult needs a lot to be called an adult. This is what makes a person an adult but this is the key you have to be 20 or older.

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